Frequently Asked Questions

Have you got some questions? This is perfectly normal, no matter how experienced a player you are.

I have, over the years, been asked many questions about my parties and the most common ones I have listed below.

To find the answer simply click on the triangular arrow and the answer to your burning question will magically appear! Is your question not listed? Ask and you shall receive!

It is my first time here. Will I fit in?

Of course you will! I make sure everyone has a great time at Bottoms Up. Plus, there is a great chance to meet all the ladies and gents at the party over a glass of bubbly before the action begins, so you will feel right at home in no time!

Is the venue secure?

It most certainly is! We always have someone on the door ensuring only those on the guest list are allowed in. Plus, the venue is very fetish friendly so you can relax and enjoy!

I have never used implements before. Will you show me how?

Yes of course. We ladies ALL have a vast experience with implements, so whether you are completely new to this type of play or you just fancy trying something different, all us ladies will be most happy to show you how!

Do I have to dress up to attend your parties?

Not at all! You may come as casual or as smart as you like, as long as you feel comfortable in what you are wearing and your spanking arm can swing freely

Is my personal information protected?

I could not take this more seriously. I do not share ANY of your details with anyone, no matter if I know them or not. I am also registered with the Information Commissioner’s Office.

May I take pictures?

I know it seems mean, but I cannot allow pictures to be taken at any of my parties, sorry. I do this so all the gents and ladies that attend my parties are protected. There are pictures on the site and I do update here and twitter with new party pics too.

Is there any play on offer other than spanking?

Unfortunately I must disappoint you here. Bottoms Up parties are purely spanking and corporal punishment parties. If you want an event that offers ‘extras’ then we are not the party for you.

Will I have to pay a deposit?

Yes you will. Unless you are one of my diehard regulars (you know who you are!), then I do ask for a deposit to be paid via bank transfer. Rest assured your details are shared with NO-ONE and all transactions are secure.

My question isn’t here. May I get in touch to ask it?

Yes of course! If you have a question that you don’t see the answer to here then please do get in touch and I will be most happy to answer it for you. as ever my emails is: bottomsupspanking@hotmail.co.uk